Opening Omens

You know there are those days that you know are going to be long and stressful and right at the beginning you get an omen. Sometimes it’s a good one, sometimes it’s a bad one. Then you can expect either a smooth day or something hellish.

On Saturday it was the wedding of my best mate Rob in Sacramento, which is currently cloaked in 100F of sun. I had only visited the venue once before and had no idea where I was going to do my speech, or when. A recipe for a long day you’d have though.

But when I woke up at 7am and staggered, blurry-eyed to the bathroom I had an omen, and it was a good one. I went to put my contact lenses in and both slipped on perfectly first time. This has never happened to me in the two months I’ve been wearing them. ‘Good start’, I sighed with relief.

Rob and I then spent an hour meticulously putting our kilts on. His had a Sutherland tartan, his family name, mine had a generic Scottish tartan – for I have no Jock blood in me.

By then the rest of our gang had woken and had filed into our room to watch the festivities and give Rob some moral support. But when they left to change into their suits and dresses Rob and I slid our underwear off to complete the authentic kilt outfit. A deep breath from us both and we headed for the car.

We arrived at the venue, Slocum House, with an hour and a half until kick-off and I spent that running around like a mum that has lost a kid, trying to help out where I could, constantly going back to the bar for drinks of water and keep Rob calm.

At 11am, with half an hour to go, I got a phone call from the maid of honour which meant the bride had arrived. This was my cue to bundle Rob into the gents toilets to make sure he didn’t see her.

Before long guests were milling around and chatting freely and everyone seemed ready for the biggest moment of Rob and Laura’s life.

The groomsmen and bridesmaids walked arm in arm down the makeshift aisle in the garden of Slocum House where guests had lined a walkway. No-one slipped up and last to emerge was Laura, Rob’s impending bride. A hush descended as Latika’s Theme by A R Rahman floated from the stereo across the garden. Laura stole the eyes of all in the garden, as the glided down the aisle, looking like a 1950s movie star.

Rob and Laura seemed to hold each other’s stare through the entire ceremony, only breaking it to kiss as Cabus, the minister, announced them husband and wife.

I breathed a huge sigh of relief because it meant my main duties as best man – make sure the groom gets married – had been completed. Thankfully the sporran on my kilt outfit had proven to be the perfect place to keep the rings.

As the midday sun settled into the California sky, guests started to move inside to escape the sweltering heath. Sitting in four layers of kilt, Rob and I couldn’t avoid sweating loads, but it didn’t matter.

My sweat ratio increased around 2pm as my speech approached. Thankfully Lauren, the maid of honour, had come to my rescue with a projector and speakers meaning I was able to hook up my laptop and show the slideshow of video messages from friends back home in the UK for Rob and Laura.

I invited the 50-strong guestlist into the bar area for my speech. As they gathered and the hum of chatting quietened I took another deep breath. Everything had gone smoothly so far but this was the final hurdle.

I delivered my first gag of the speech and waited…instant laughter. Phew!

The second joke went down even better and before I knew it I was well into my speech, enjoying toying with the crowd and Rob with each line.

Even bits in the speech I didn’t expect to get any reaction for got a laugh. They really were the best audience a rubbish comic could ask for.

The video messages went down a storm too and as I raised my glass for a toast, safe in the knowledge my last duty of the day had passed successfully, I finally relaxed. The next half an hour was spend shaking hands with guest who proclaimed it “the best speech I’ve heard” and “very funny”. I had nightmares it was going to flop leading up to the day. This was more than I could have hoped for.

As guests started to leave and the day wound down, I found it easier to enjoy the moment, and tried my best to have a quick chat with all the guests.

Rob and Laura seemed to be lapping up the day too, chatting and laughing with theirs guests, and looking the perfect couple we all knew they were.

I drove them back to their hotel in downtown Sacramento and then back to mine, when I dived into bed and settle in for a well-earned nap. Thanks opening omen.